Love is a feeling of strong attachment and affection. Love, esteem and intimacy are feelings that humans crave because it fulfills the basic human need for connection, security and acceptance. And this connection between people is beautifully portrayed in romantic movies evoking in humans a hope that love and healthy relationships are attainable in our lives, release oxytocin and also providing a form of escapism from our day-to-day lives and routines. Romantic movies allow their audience to experience the idealized form of love visually and live vicariously through the characters fulfilling their own desires and hopes for a “happily ever after”. Bollywood has produced some well regarded and loved romantic films that have stood the test of time and are still revered and re- watched by romance genre lovers. Here are some of the best romantic movies to enjoy with your loved ones in the month of love:
Diwale Dulhania Le Jayenge (1995)
Considered a timeless classic, DDLJ is one of the most successful romantic filmsproduced by Bollywood. A sweet story of Raj (Shah Rukh Khan) and Simran (Kajol), two young non-resident Indians who fall in love while vacationing through Europe and the familial obstacles waiting for them once they return home. The movie is considered iconic because of the chemistry between the lead couple; their characters and struggles were very relatable and resonated with the audiences showcasing themes of struggling to strike a balance between modern thinking and respecting tradition, individual choice while respecting parent’s wishes and family values and love overcoming societal pressures. The film is the perfect blend of comedy, drama and romance with an unforgettable soundtrack and beautiful locations, which makes it a heartwarming visual treat for the viewers.
GUIDE (1965)
Based on the 1958 novel “The Guide” by R.K Narayan, Guide is a bold story about a freelancing tour guide falling in love with the unhappy and repressed wife of a wealthy archeologist. Starring the Evergreen Dev Anand and Waheeda Rehman; the movie delved into the complex, controversial and selfless relationship between a tour guide and a married woman as well as themes of self-discovery and transformation. While the love story is quite nonconventional, it perfectly depicts that love can happen anywhere and with anyone. Guide also critiques traditional societal norms and expectations especially concerning gender roles, marriage, identity and individual freedom. The film is not just about a romantic relationship between two vastly different people and their struggles but also a rich narrative that touches on the thought-provoking subjects of love, a quest of self and spirituality. With a beautiful soundtrack, strong plot and stellar performances from the cast, Guide is an engaging watch.
Veer-Zaara (2004)
A timeless story about a cross-border romance between an Indian air force pilot Veer and a simple Pakistani woman Zaara, Veer-Zaara is a deep emotional love story that transcends borders and time. The movie depicts the challenges the lead couple faces due to the difference in their cultural backgrounds, the sacrifices they make to be with each other and the undying loyalty Veer and Zaara have for each other. With an unforgettable soundtrack, picturesque locations and impactful dialogues, Veer-Zaara is a classic Bollywood romance.
Jab We Met (2007)
Jab We Met is a refreshing love story of a wealthy depressed businessman Aditya (Shahid Kapoor) and a vivacious and carefree girl Geet (Kareena Kapoor) who meet on a train and what happens after is a crazy and romantic adventure. The lead characters of the film became iconic. The movie’s endearing plot, well written and unforgettable characters, memorable soundtrack and witty dialogues make it a feel-good and entertaining watch.
Barfi! (2012)
Set in the 1970’s, Barfi! is the heartwarming story of a young man who is deaf- mute(Ranbir Kapoor) and his relationships with two girls, the beautiful and rich Shruti (Ileana D’Cruz) and the autistic Jhilmil (Priyanka Chopra). Barfi was critically and commercially acclaimed for its emotional depth and powerful performances of the cast. Barfi! touches on the sensitive topic of people with disabilities with poise. The love and friendship between Barfi and Jhilmil is pure and unique. While both of them cannot express their feelings through words, they find a language of their own to communicate. This film is different from other romances as it depicts love in a way that transcends societal norms and limitations. It celebrates individuals that do not fit into the conventional standards of what society deems “normal” yet find love and acceptance with each other. Barfi! makes you laugh, cry, think and leaves you with the feeling of joy and a deep sense of empathy.
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